Photography with Love and Dignity
Posted by The Thing With Feathers - Laura Cook on May 27, 2014 in Humanitarian photography, Technique and Tools, Visual Storytelling | 134 Comments
What the poor need most is not pity but love. They need to feel respect for their human dignity, which is neither less nor different from the dignity of any other human being.
(Mother Teresa)

Khadisara (age 13 in this image) is NOT just a girl living in poverty. She is a helpful girl who cares deeply for her mother and does all she can to support her younger sisters. She is a girl that did not want to pose with a cheesy smile. It wasn’t ‘her’. She is a girl that wanted to share her story. (Taken in 2012 for All We Can in Nepal)
I do not photograph ‘the poor’. I photograph people. Some of these people happen to live in poverty, some sadly live in extreme poverty. I agree with Mother Teresa, ‘the poor’ do not need pity, they need love. We all do don’t we? We all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, I would argue that the vulnerable in society even more so.
A conversation on LinkedIn has prompted me to write on my blog today and to use words that others may find fluffy and off-putting, words like love.
I believe that in my work as a visual storyteller love has to be an inherent part of what I do. I should treat all people with love. Love should mean that when I am working for an NGO* and taking photos for them I will always make sure my subjects (often vulnerable) understand how these images are going to be used. Where possible love means these human beings, key to the story I am creating, also participate actively in helping me create my images. Love means I will respect their wishes either way. Love means I will make efforts to make sure they get to see their photographs. Love means I will not create images that strip them of their dignity or show them as a faceless victim of famine/poor sanitation/crop failure/abuse. Love means I will make every effort to show the work of the NGO well but I will also work with the people they serve and work alongside them in a gentle way. Love means I will show the struggle but that I will also show the humanity within that struggle. The joy, tears, pain, laughter and relationships that are what make us human. The camera will only ever capture moments in time but love means that I want those moments to be an honest reflection of the story, of the struggle and of the people. Am I perfect at capturing these moments and stories yet? No, but I want to be. Not only will it make me a better photographer but hopefully a better human being too.
I work both as a photographer and as a participatory photography facilitator**. I love to do both as I get such joy seeing people enabled to tell their own stories. I still remember a woman in Malawi’s joyful exclamation “For the first time people see us. We have a voice.” as she saw her photographs on display. I saw fantastic reactions from the UK public viewing the work too as for many of them this was the first time they had seen photographs taken by the people they donated money to and supported. One woman said “I would never have guessed someone takes more pride in their garden than me”. The humanity was easy to encapsulate in these galleries as no longer were the images of victims taken by an outsider, they were images taken by survivors and photographers.
Of course I believe there is a place for professionals working as photographers for NGOs (I am one!) but I think as charities become better advocates for those living in poverty they should also become more aware of how the images they produce impact on the way the donating public in countries like England perceive those they give money to support. Some charities are getting this really right but an awful lot are still getting it wrong.
As someone who has worked for a number of international development NGOs (and continues to do so) I know that the majority of charities want to show the value of the people they work with. Unfortunately though images produced by some charities are missing the dignity and the love. They settle for stereotypical images of the ‘archetypal poor child staring up at the camera with tears in their eyes’. Some of them also put words in that child’s mouth, I have seen at least two campaigns in the last year that use posters telling us what the child would say if they were old enough to talk. People have labelled this kind of imagery Poverty Porn. Photographs and words designed to appeal to the donor wanting to give money.
In this interesting article Weh Yeoh looks at the role the NGO plays in deciding their marketing strategy (this of course includes not only images but also words). He says that “effective marketing brings attention and donations. Good development work should improve the lives of poor people” and does not believe that NGOs can do both. He looks at the power balance between the donor (the market) and the NGO beneficiary and notes that an effective marketing campaign will always favour the donor. He says that “unless we change the way we consume communications as human beings, overly simplistic marketing tactics will always butt heads with good development work”. I agree but want to focus on the hope in the first part of his conclusion. I think as an image consumer and an image maker it is up to us to change the trend and bring back the love and dignity.
I belong to the International Guild of Visual Peacemakers and encourage you to have a look at their site whether you are a photographer or a consumer of images. This group subscribes to a set of ethics encouraging image makers to engage with their subjects in a meaningful and honest way. They believe that the way in which visual content is created directly impacts both subjects and the outcome of the work itself. Visual peacemakers must be mindful of the person and the picture. They also have a Charter for Visual Peace which is an excellent set of statements all visual consumers can sign up to (that is most of us!). I want to include one of those statements here as I think they sum up well how we could change the way we consume communications:
“I commit…..
To not make sweeping generalizations or harbor stereotypes based on images. And when certain images impact me in a remarkable way—either positively or negatively—I will seek more information on the subject involved.” (IGVP Charter for Visual Peace)”
Imagine if we all did that – as photographers, as videographers and most importantly as consumers. Imagine a world where the donor gets annoyed if an image used on a poster or in a charity newsletter reinforces negative stereotypes and then they wrote in to the NGO to ask why. Imagine a world where people’s names, and lives, and loves and hates were all woven into the images and words that we use. Imagine a world where the donor is prepared to listen to and look at those lives and see the person behind the image. Imagine a world where good development and effective marketing work together because people refuse to buy stereotypical and donor focused images and words.
I do not have a magic solution to the complex problems outlined here. What I do know though is that I want to be someone that shows love and compassion in the way I work with people. I also understand that my photography is subjective; that I make choices about what to include and leave out of the frame. My images will only ever capture a moment. What I can do though is work my hardest to make sure that moment reflects their humanity. The person within the frame deserves dignity and love. We all do.
*Non Governmental Organisation (NGO)
**Participatory photography is photography involving the people that would normally be the subjects of the work. These individuals are trained to use cameras and to tell their own story.
Thank you for writing this. You talk about love, but I think another key value that you strive for is respect. People (and I include myself) can forget that they’re taking photos of human beings and not “Faces of The Third World.” Most people wouldn’t like a stranger coming up to them and snapping their photo with no explanation, so why should poor people like it? Treating people like people and not their personal project to self-discovery or awareness is a basic rule to follow.
Very true. Respecting others as we would want to be respected ourselves.
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I am just starting out on photography and I am very fascinated on what I learned from this article.
I wonder if I can reblog this on my external site.
I have approved the reblog – thanks for the support
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Bravo!
This is really cool!!!
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Hello, freshly Pressed brought me here. ‘Always Ahead’. That’s the phrase on the young lady’s T-shirt.
Yes – I only noticed her t shirt after the photo shoot! Very suitable words!
Beautiful photo. A picture speaks a thousand words.
Thank you for an excellent article about an aspect of photography that I’d previously not considered. and thank you for the link to the IVGP site, there are some excellent images on there.
regards
David
No problem, thanks so much for stopping by and reading David.
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Great picture. Her eyes are so intense. She looks like she has a story to tell. I like it a lot.
Every face we pass on our travels has a story to tell, some more interesting than others. Your photos help to tell the story, lovely post.
Thank you
This is beautiful. You really forced me to think in a different way about photography and the relationship between lens and subject. I think love really is the perfect word to use, fluffy and all as it is! Congrats on being Freshly Pressed! 🙂
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Thanks so much
Wow I really love your photography and your article. It is beautiful and poignant. I remember when I was volunteering at a childrens home in Peru I would get very upset when new travelers would come through and photograph the kids and pose with them, with no respect for the kids identity or privacy. It was like they were some novelty. I really identify with your words, thank you for sharing.
Thanks so much for the comment. Yes there is almost a tourist industry in having pics with kids! I always just imagine if it was the other way round.
I experienced the other way around when I was in India lol. I am white and married to an Indian and every time I went out people took photos of me an my daughter, some even asked to pose with me. I find like an animal in the zoo be photographed. So I know it does not feel good to the kids either.
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What a brilliant post. I love the idea of the participatory photography. Great work!
Thank you
Love is not just a word. It is a way of life. Thank you for reminding us
A very touching post, thanks for sharing…
What does it mean to love someone? What does the concept of human dignity mean, and what are its consequences? What marks the end of a person’s life? Is personhood more than consciousness? These perplexing questions lurk beneath the surface of everyday life, surfacing only to demand urgent attention in crises.
This is fantastic–I love the way you shared about what love is. This is my heart when I photograph as well, though it’s a struggle to always live up to it. It’s a journey of learning for me, and these are important words to share–not only for photographers, but as you said, visual consumers as well.
So why didn’t you share her story?
Whose story? I did share the story of the girl in the photo with the intended and agreed audience through the NGO I shot the image for. I had full permission to share her story with that audience. For this blog piece it would not have been appropriate either for her or fair on the NGO. The link is there to find out more through the NGO though (All We Can) should you want to.
Oh, OK.
Thank you for this lovely post. As an art therapy student and a fledgling photographer, I am happy to see someone who still believes in the importance of LOVE when working with others.
Thanks. I think we should never lose sight of what makes us human.
This is a great post & very inspiring!
in photography, less is more…. it has different meanings and versions to different people as well…. but it leaves a question to one’s mind and soul
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Very Thoughtful post. I often wonder about our obscenity to take for granted things which matter to other people. Well done. .
thank you for this post.
my heart breaks each time i see poverty porn splashed across well respected charity/ngo sites. i’ve pointed it out to them a couple of times in the past, hoping they’d do something about it. how can one look at these photos without cringing is beyond me. most of the time, i have this feeling that they’ve been exploited again, all in the name of “helping”.
and yes, we need some parameters to guide us when we look at them, in person or in photographs. perhaps, we should try love?
great post 🙂
What a fantastic reply. I strongly believe that if enough of us contact NGOs when we have concerns about imagery used we will start to have an impact on the ‘poverty porn’ marketing approach.
and so i’m glad you wrote this post and got pressed too.
change is possible, though it might mean one step at a time 🙂
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This article points to reasons why mass surveillance strips surveilled innocents of their dignity. One, mass surveillance treats human populations as just any other good to be processed, scrutinized, and shelved into neat technical categories.
Thank you for working hard and loving.
Fascinating article…I’m curious what your ideas are on a different topic- the abuse of women, actually! I’m at proteccionparaella.wordpress.com…I wonder you agree with my Peruvian-influenced project? -Julia from Protección Para Ella
I think it’s definitely true that sometimes the dignity of people is lost, as photographers strive to maintain stereotypes. We’ll done for being the change you want to see!
Thanks so much
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This is great! I’ve been incorporating this in my own photography from early on since learning this long ago, and am always looking for the words to best describes a better way to love people.
A great story.
happy to see…..
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Thank you for sharing this, Laura. So important to remember and so often forgotten. To take the time to love, honour and respect those we share our lives with, however briefly, brings us closer to them and to life and both our memories, our lives and our photographs will be the richer for it.
I just found your blog and found this title very interesting, as it´s underlining my point of view on photography very much. I´m currently living in India, and see the same things you do. Thanks for sharing these strong thoughts! PS: My english is far being fluent as yours, therefore can´t write as freely as I wish. But I am trying my best 🙂
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This is a beautiful piece – thought provoking and inspiring, thank you for sharing 🙂